We’ve all heard the jokes. But mothers-in-law are more than cliches, and more than jokes. They are a part of our family; and much like our spouse, it is for better, or for worse.

Why does the in-law relationship carry such a stigma? It may be that there are so many nuances involved. While he may be your husband now, he is still her son. And while your wife is a grown woman, the relationship with her mother has been the most influential relationship in her life, until now. Mothers-in-law find themselves in a difficult position of loving how happy you make their child, while taking a back seat in their son or daughter’s life. With so many possible emotions, it is no wonder that there can be some awkward situations and confusing pathways to navigate.

Violets

On October 25, you have the opportunity to let your mother-in-law know that through it all, you think she is pretty wonderful. A bouquet of fresh flowers or a long-lasting dish garden will tell her that you love her, and that you are glad that she was “part of the deal”. Traditional Mother’s Day flowers are appropriate – pink carnations, lilies and roses are some of the most often sent – but feel free to send an arrangement that reflects her unique personality. Vibrant daisies represent the joy and laughter she has brought to your home; while orchids convey a feeling of gratitude for her virtue and elegance.

For a gift that she’ll treasure for months and years to come, consider this basket of potted violet plants. The violet represents faithfulness and devotion, and is a fitting tribute to the matriarch who has cared for the family for decades.

Whether your mother-in-law is your best friend, or if you want her to be – October 25^th is the perfect day to reach out with flowers. This Mother-In-Law’s Day, come into one of Nanz & Kraft Florists Louisville locations and let us help you to create the best floral arrangement to celebrate your family.